Have you ever known a dude who meant well, but couldn’t quite connect the dots socially; someone who was sincere, naïve and, well, but not all that bright when it came to relationships? Usually we feel bad for this kind of person because he doesn’t quite get it. He tries hard asking that out-of- his-league girl out but doesn’t catch the non-verbal cues that she is just not interested in carrying on a conversation or going out or whatever. He just can’t quite connect the dots. Wait, that sounds like me in high school! But sometimes not connecting the dots can actually be a good…